I tend to be very truthful. But, I haven’t been to myself. When you lose yourself and accept the way people treat you and accept everyone’s BS. I feel you lose who you are. There is nothing more beautiful then knowing who you are,what you want and owning it. If you love purple highlights in your hair go for it.If you love your body stretch marks an all own it. Every person wasn’t made to look like the next. I have chosen to Love who I am my imperfections and all. I made a choice to get fit this year I had really let myself go not only physically but Mentally too. I found myself being everyone’s go to person. Everything and everyone was happy getting help,info,a crying shoulder,a favor here and there.
But they always tend to forget about Me!!! I went through a very long and dark depression and no one noticed. My close friends and family left me behind. I wasn’t that funny charismatic person. You know the one who always made gatherings fun. It took me awhile to understand sometimes you don’t mean as much to a person like they mean to you.
It’s a harsh pill to swallow waking up and realizing how much you care for someone but they will never care or bat an eye if your not there.
That’s why I made a few adjustments and boy did they feel it. The you never text me or respond got the same treatment. Haha. The person that never invites me anywhere is upset because I didn’t invite them. Honestly,I can careless.
When you start treating these people shitty the earth really moves beneath them. They are so surprised with the way you are acting, when they’re the ones who have been this way always.I gave them a taste of there own medicine and I hope that somma bitch was bitter.
I turned that yes to no
The I will be there to I can’t I won’t
The I am not loved by that person to fuck off
The don’t like me to who cares
The Ungrateful a kick in the you guessed it.
I also turned the We to Me and it’s working out perfectly. I have less stress less crap on my plate.I am healing on the inside and opening my eyes to my worth. I am valuable sucks certain people didn’t see it.
Love who you are,your worth is valuable,your mental health is a strong force. Most of all don’t let others take you for Granted.
Peace,Love and Harmony.
Karin Valencia 